I get a lot of great questions every day and I love being able to share my knowledge and insights with people. But I also like being able to share them with you. So when I recently got the following question about our recent move to Berlin, I just knew I had to share it! If you have a question you’d like me to answer (about anything from Berlin to natural living to cooking to homesteading to… whatever, send it to tiffany at noordinaryhomestead.com!)
Dear Tiffany,
We came across your website a few months ago as we are contemplating a move to Berlin from our utopian-like village in Baden-Wuertemmburg, also living in a house that we restored over the past eight years. I am American and my wife is German; the kids identify with both cultures. We were surprised at the similarities between our two situations and we especially appreciated your comparison of Frankfurt with Berlin a few months back. We were wondering how your perspective has developed since then; it would be very interesting to hear an update on your overall impression / reflection on living in Berlin. We have been to Berlin a number of times and absolutely love it… but we also suspect that visiting there and living there are two entirely different experiences.
We thoroughly enjoy your blog. Thanks!
Best regards,
T&S
Hi!
Thanks for reaching out to me!
It really does sound like quite a few similarities are present between our lives…funny how small the universe is some times.
Berlin is a really interesting city because it can be so many things to so many different types of people. I can honestly say that we love it here and I’ve never experienced having a city feel like “home” as quickly as Berlin did. Within a month of living here, it just seemed like we’d been here forever and it was quite easy for us to get acclimated. Perhaps we were already ready for the move away from the country life in many ways without being totally conscious of it. I can say that we had already been contemplating leaving the Frankfurt area for a few months, and were putting things in the works to make that happen. Granted, we thought we’d be moving to sunny Florida instead of Berlin, but we were embracing a move nonetheless.
Before we moved here, we had never spent any real time in Berlin. We visited once before we decided to move and really liked it but each area of the city (or Kiez) is very different and where you settle is likely were you will spend most of your time. It’s not because it’s so hard to get around the city (public transit here is great and most U-Bahn trains run about every 4 minutes) but because you’ll find everything you need in your immediate area and will mostly just travel out of the Kiez to visit friends or for a special occasion. We’re in the Schöneberg area, near Nollendorfplatz, which is extremely central and we love it. There are lots of restaurants and bars within walking distance, plenty of Kitas around for our daughter (now 4 years old), we are close to the Tiergarten and Zoo, this area of the city has lots of trees and green spots — so for us, it was just perfect. But it all depends on what you are looking for. And whatever it is that you want or need (from history to night life to kid-centric quiet spaces to hippie-friendly cafes) you can find it in Berlin and move in next door.
With kids, you will need to consider what school you want to put your kids in and whether it will be public or private. For many parents, putting their kids in a school like JFK in Dahlem is really important to get the American culture and schooling. Or you may just want to go with public schooling (although it seems like most of the expat parents we know put their kids in some sort of international school, whether public or private — and there may be costs associated with that.) Since we are just starting that process with our daughter, I can’t give much feedback as of yet, but I can direct you to another blogger here in Berlin who would likely be able to share more as her daughters are 7 and 9.
Another high selling point for Berlin is that it is a fairly inexpensive place to live but with a very high quality of life. Compared to New York City, it’s about 35% cheaper to live in Berlin…and based on a city like Frankfurt, it’s about 15% cheaper to live in Berlin. You can not only get bigger and nicer apartments in the heart of the city, but food is less expensive as a whole (both fresh and in restaurants) and Berliners seem to demand better quality of food than we found in Frankfurt. They focus more on local vendors and organic products, even at local independent fast food chains and kiosks, which to me is a very welcome adjustment. Plus there are far more independent retailers around here IMO when you’re deeper in the Kietz, versus finding a McDonald’s or Burger King around every corner.
If you enjoy Berlin during your visits here, I think you will continue to love the city if you move here. There’s a slight feeling of being a permanent tourist because there is always so much to see and do — and I think many of the locals don’t completely take advantage of all the city has to offer. But that’s probably because there is just so much to choose from and interests of all kinds are covered, from music to museums to history and beyond. And once you’ve been taking care of a home for several years and move here to an apartment (especially a rental), it’s almost like going on vacation or moving into a hotel. 😉 The biggest problem in Berlin so far, has been figuring out what not to do since there is so much going on at all times.
Thank you for sharing your experience. I’m considering moving to Berlin, too, because I’ve heard it has pervasive bicycle paths. As I want to be still riding a bike when I’ll be an old man, my next stop will be either Berlin or somewhere in the Netherlands, but since I keep hearing positive comments on Berlin, I’ll check it out first. Do you think there are rough areas in Berlin which are better avoided? Thanks.
Hi Elena,
There are many, many bikers around Berlin and it’s definitely a common method of getting around the city. There are bike lanes on most major streets or shared paths on the sidewalks. Bikes are welcome on the u-bahn and such of course too for about 5 euros.
Areas of Berlin that rough around the edges include Neu-Koeln and, to some extent, Wedding. Kreuzberg and Friedrichshain are pretty gentrified now but there are likely still a few sketchy areas in each Kiez in the city.
Hi Tiffany ! Congratulations for your website and your blogger… I ‘ve just found it throug google..
My name is Alessandra, from Italy. I travelled a lot before marrying and settle down in Bologna (italy) and having a daughter. We have decided to move in Berlin which we visited and loved last summer. We have some german friends who will rent us their place for the first weeks (they are outside berlin ..) . I have many questions abd i don’t want to take too much advantage so I’ll ask the most important for the moment. How is finding a job in Berlin? I speak different languages (chinese, english, french) and I’m currently studying german and my husband is an architect. Can you suggest some important head hunters? We’ll move in the end of April… i hope we’ll get a chance to see maybe! thanks for the moment
Hi Alessandra,
I don’t have any specific headhunter recommendations for you as we haven’t used any of them locally, but I’m sure that if you do some searching in Google, you will come across some useful firms. I think that with your diverse language skills, you should have plenty of options. There are also many architecture firms here.
My husband and I are both Americans (San Francisco) and he has the opportunity for us to stay in Berlin for 2 months this summer. My sons are 6&8 and if we decide to go I’d love to have them join an organized activity or camp while we are there. Do you know of any in particular or any organizations or associations I might start with? I’m normally a working mom so taking off two months to spend with my boys, while exciting, is making me a bit nervous so I want to make sure we have enough activities to keep us busy. also, should we all take some conversational German? Any advice would be appreciated.
Although Berlin is a very international city, learning some German will certainly allow you to experience the city more like a local.
I’m going to ask around for a few suggestions on groups to connect with. Our daughter was preschool age when we were living there which was a bit easier perhaps. There are lots of museums and things like that – so you may find a program through one of them as well.
Hi Tiffany,
Great read, Me and my wife live in Singapore where everything is easy and simple and straight forward. Recently we have been discussing about moving to europe as we love travelling and we have seen most of the cities in Asia in last 6 years.
I have found a job in berlin and my pay is relatively lower than what I get in Singapore but I see berlin is cheaper than Singapore. Also we dont know german and we have some limitations on food plus it seems it could be bit difficult with new weather as Singapore is summer 365 days. Is it a tough country to build a foundation?
Staying back in Singapore is easier but moving to berlin seems exciting, It would be great get some suggestions from you.
Hi Danny,
There is a large community of English speakers in Berlin and I’m sure there are some who move there and never learn the language…but you will experience all that Berlin and Germany have to offer if you venture into learning it. It’s actually not a very difficult language to learn, especially compared to English or other complex languages. Berlin has a relatively low cost of living when compared with many other major cities, but there are expensive sides too.
Have you been to visit it before? If not, I’d highly recommend a weekend or longer there to check it out. The winters can be long and depressing, but those first days of spring warmth are heaven and you savor each day of summer all that much more. 😉